My daughter graduates from high school on Saturday.
I’m amazed at how the time has flown by. It seems like only yesterday that she was headed off to kindergarten- and now she’s just finished her final day of her senior year.
And I’m proud of her.
She’s made great grades. She’s made great decisions. She’s become a bright, mature young woman.
But she’s leaving our home. And I have regrets.
I wish I’d spent more time with her.
Yes- we have traveled a lot. There have been countless road trips for AAU basketball and club soccer tournaments.
We’ve hiked the Rockies and the Smokies. We’ve traveled to the east and west coasts.
But I wish we’d done more. I wish we’d talked more.
It’s not too late. Hollianne and I will find new ways to invest in her. We’ll pour love, attention and prayer into her during college. It’ll be different- but it’s critically important.
But now for those boys.
We’re left with two sons in our home. In a flash, they’ll be finishing up middle and high school and headed out into the world as young adults.
I was reading a book this morning and it told of a parenting seminar where Dr. James Dobson was speaking. The writer said that Dr. Dobson finished his speech with the following quote:
“God only gives us so many times to go fishing with our kids…so don’t miss a one of them.”
I need to be intentional about pouring attention into my boys. The need love, attention and investment. They need my time.
And I’ve got to do better. There are things that they need to hear from me. There are things that they need to see in me. I’ve got to step up and stand in the gap.
You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your might. And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise. Deuteronomy 6: 5-7
Maybe you are in a similar situation. Perhaps you have children at home…or grown children…and need to invest more time into that relationship. Perhaps it’s a parent or a sibling- and you are looking for ways to spend more time with them.
My prayer is week is two-fold. I will pray that Hollianne and I are creative with the ways to invest in Carson as she goes off to college. And I pray that we are intentional about the ways we invest in our sons. I don’t want to miss an opportunity to go fishing.
Let me know how I may pray for you.
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Another excellent message Keith. Thank you for sharing. God bless you and your family. John Luthi
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As I navigate the continuous process of raising my sons as they enter year two of college and start the last year of high school, I will take these words to heart and do better. I needed to be reminded of this today…thank you.