2017 brought a new job to the Carver household. And it’s ushered in lots of change too.
My schedule is a bit hectic, as there are many new places to visit with many new people to meet.
It’s been exciting, but it has me traveling away from the family quite a bit. It’s required an adjustment, as Hollianne is trying to juggle a full schedule with three active kids.
We are all doing our part to make the best of the transition.
Well….one of us is struggling more than the rest. Our youngest, Britton, is the most resistant to change. It’s been hard on him.
One night he told me that his biggest fear is that our relationship would change…that he and I wouldn’t be as close as we are right now.
His statement hit me right in the heart. My little guy was worried about our relationship- and that less time together might change the way I feel about him.
But I assured him that a new job- or my limited time at home during the daytime- wouldn’t impact my love for him. In fact, I pledged to work harder to make sure that we made the most of our time together.
He’s experiencing what we’ve all felt at some point in our lives. We have thoughts that some life event can put distance between us and someone we love. Maybe it’s not time or distance- but hardship or a broken relationship.
This world is filled with hurt and doubt, but there’s hope for the believer.
For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons,[a] neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord. Romans 8:38-39
What a promise that is!
Nothing can separate us from the love of God. Nothing. There’s an unconditional love that is present regardless of our sinful actions and ways. We are imperfect- and God loves us anyway.
Earthly relationships change. Eternal ones don’t. We can rest assured that God will never leave us.
So we have come to know and to believe the love that God has for us. God is love, and whoever abides in love abides in God, and God abides in him. I John 4:16
Please pray for me to be the best husband and father that I can possibly be this year. And let me know how I can pray for you.
6 thoughts on “Separation Anxiety”
Appreciate you, brother. Love you man.
God has placed you here for a purpose. He will not let you down or your family. Do not be afraid is all throughout the Bible. Susie and I will pray for you and your family daily.
Love that dear picture of Britton…and your priorities. I am praying with confidence that our Lord will both help you keep your priorities and reassure Britton’s heart. Wish there were some way I could help H.
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Praying for you and your family. That’s a tuff one.
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I love that this is important to you! For so many it would just be collateral damage to “make it” in the world. Hugs!