Several years ago one of my son’s favorite questions was:
“What are you afraid of?”
JT was thinking about the sorts of things that most kids fret over. Storms. Godzilla. Bigfoot. The dark space under your bed. I would assure him that he would outgrow these fears as he got older.
I wish that were completely true.
The truth is that maturity and age only present a new set of items to fear. Tornados and monsters in the closet are replaced by concerns about career, health and relationships.
There are at least three situations that make us afraid as adults.
- Fear of the unknown
- Past experiences
Rejection is the scariest for me, as the fear of being embarrassed or viewed as incompetent can be paralyzing. Even the slightest chance of being rejected can keep us from acting on an opportunity.
The fear of the unknown is equally difficult to overcome, as it can keep us in the realm of “what if something bad happens” instead of the better state of “what can the possibilities be.”
And the pain of past experiences might be the worst of all. We’ve all experienced prior hurt and disappointment. Since experience is the greatest teacher- these hard lessons can be hard to overcome.
Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand. Isaiah 41:10
I need help remembering that I have a big brother…a loving Father that can give me strength when I am stricken with fear and doubt.
Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. Philippians 4:6
Our futures are safe and secure. Our worries and cares can be offered up to a compassionate and loving God.
When I am afraid, I put my trust in you. In God, whose word I praise, in God I trust; I shall not be afraid. What can flesh do to me? Psalm 56:3-4
No matter the size of our fears, we need to remember that we’ve got an even bigger God.
Please pray for me to release my fears this week, and let me know how I may pray for you. God bless you.